Respect for a person is a sign of a civilized society.

Such an ugly deformation of moral criteria did not arise from scratch, but was brought up. You can see this when talking to the parents of young mothers — it happens that representatives of quite "decent" families turn out to be "cuckoos".

And it's not even what parents and relatives say (they usually say: "What a shame!", "Shame on the whole village!" and the like), but how in uncontrolled reactions, unlike speech, they demonstrate their habitual, which is the norm in everyday communication. treating your daughter like a thing. As a voiceless object that does not have its own will and the right to make independent decisions. And the girl is usually silent, admits that "the mother is in her right.".. You feel that once some kind of freedom was given to the child, but imaginary, illusory, before the first serious act. And now the child has messed up, and "democracy" is over...

In my memory, only once, and unfortunately, to no avail, a teenage mother tried to resist her parents, suffered, hesitated, and was obviously struggling with herself... By the way, this is the only one of all the "cuckoos" I know, which I was—and still am—sincerely sorry for: perhaps because she showed the only possible care for the future of her child (a wonderful baby, by the way) in her position: "Please put her in good hands."!"

The rest leave without looking back... Together with the young grandmothers, who are happy that everything "ended well." Only twice — out of dozens of cases that have passed before me — have parents behaved with dignity.

Eteri A., a seventeen-year-old student at Tbilisi State University, came to Moscow specifically to give birth. She refused the child categorically.: When her father and mother, whom we informed of the fait accompli according to the existing rules, arrived at the hospital, the staff, who had seen a lot, expected everything: angry reproaches, temperamental accusatory tirades, at least reproachful silence. However, none of this happened. Their meeting with their daughter was a model of tact. They did not express the slightest censure by word or gesture. Their attentive, careful treatment of their daughter and baby was pleasant to watch: it was true intelligence in action, emphasizing the wildness of what, unfortunately, had become the norm for us.

And another woman, unfortunately, who learned late about the birth of her grandson, a collective farmer from Poltava, rushed to Moscow, but the boy had already been adopted...

Respect for a person is an indisputable and necessary sign of any civilized society, no matter how bitter it is, we have been classified as a "faculty of unnecessary things." Such an element of moral culture as maternal feeling has also been lost. The maternal instinct, which we rely on as a panacea, must be awakened, maternal feelings must be nurtured, and many of our habits, attitudes, and traditional parenting methods do not develop it, but, on the contrary, suppress it.

We have to admit that motherhood, both as an element of traditional femininity and as part of the lifestyle, is no longer in high esteem. Sexless education in kindergartens and schools is bearing fruit; girls there are oriented towards professional, property and other social achievements, but not to be a mother. And how, hand on heart, do we encourage and stimulate our daughters already in an informal and therefore most strongly influencing home environment for a teenager? Yes, it's the same again: admission to college, public opinion, career, prestige. And now it's unfashionable for girls to be a mother, but it's fashionable to be "their boyfriend" or an energetic, businesslike, self-supporting "boy-woman." Motherhood does not fit into the views of modern "such and such" youth.

And it's not just maternal feelings that have degraded. Paternal, which is somehow not customary to mention, although it is clear that you cannot clap your hands with one hand, and in fact, in the dramas we are considering, it has come to naught: in almost one hundred percent of cases, fathers withdraw themselves according to the principle "I am not me, and the hut is not mine." Best porn site https://noodlemagazine.com - Watch porn.